In today’s world where ‘herd following’ has become a trend in our society where people are friends with eachother for the sake of getting invited to parties or for a social obligation.
Where on one hand they talk incessantly about life and it’s maladies but never really follow what they say!
Where the actions and sadly emotions too, are based on how many lunches, dinner and cocktail parties they’ve attended in their life.
Having a conversation with them is like listening to an advertisement. They don’t value themselves so what can one expect from them.
Where the act of friendships are directly equivalent to how many Jager shots they’ve had in parties.
I have learnt to say NO to be in company of such people and I feel on top of the world. I feel happy and most importantly I feel contented.
I do not harness any ill feelings for them, infact I’ve no feelings of any kind for them.
What I do is, wish them well and pray for their soul recovery asap.
One must pay attention to what he/she really want to do in life. Listen to your true self, listen to your body.
Rise up and beyond this hoard mentality of feeling happy by dancing to the tune of falsehood and by showing off how happy you are. Learn to live in good energy. Whatever works for you.