And this goes for all of us, cos nobody is perfect.  We all need to work on ourselves on a daily basis rather than asking others to change or finding fault in them.
How?
1)Try to be positive.
2)Stop judging others.
3)Stop getting into situations that are beyond your control.
4)Change by moving away from people who hurt you, again and again.
5) Thrive for something that excites your inner being, positively.
6) Stay away from fakes.